20 Questions You’re Too Polite to Ask a Wedding Florist

For the couples who want to feel seen, supported, and beautifully taken care of.


Planning your wedding flowers shouldn’t feel like decoding a secret language.
If you’ve found yourself staring at dreamy Pinterest bouquets, wondering what they cost, how to describe your vision, or whether a florist will take advantage of your trust — you’re not alone. Most of the couples I work with here at The Gilded Garden in Somerset, PA come to me feeling the same way: excited, but overwhelmed.

So I’ve pulled together the top 20 questions most brides want to ask — but are too polite to say out loud. These are the honest, behind-the-scenes questions that can help you feel more confident when choosing a florist who truly gets you.

Here are the answers, from one creative, down-to-earth floral designer (hi, I’m Penny 👋) to one thoughtful, intentional bride (that’s you). Let’s jump in.


1. Can I trust you to understand my vision, even if I’m not great at explaining it?

Yes — I’m a floral designer and a good listener. I love taking your ideas, even if they’re a little fuzzy, and creating something uniquely beautiful and deeply personal.

2. Will I be pressured to spend more than I can afford?

No. I’ll give you options that fit your comfort zone and help you make the most of your investment.

3. Will you help me figure out what I need?

Absolutely. I’ll walk you through it all. No checklist required from you — that’s my job.

4. What does “custom floral design” really mean?

It means your flowers are thoughtfully designed just for you, not pulled from a catalog. Everything is created with your venue, vibe, and story in mind.

5. Are wedding flowers actually worth the investment?

When done right, they are so worth it. Flowers set the tone, enhance your photos, and create memories. They bring emotion and artistry into your day.

6. What if I don’t have a clear vision yet?

That’s totally fine. Many of my clients come to me with a feeling or a color palette, and we build the design from there.

7. Can I trust that I won’t be overcharged?

You’ll always get a transparent proposal and fair pricing. I respect your investment and your trust.

8. Will you be honest if something I want doesn’t fit the budget or won’t work?

Always. I’ll gently guide you toward what’s possible and beautiful — without the sugarcoating.

9. How are your flowers different from grocery store bouquets?

My designs are custom, artistic, and crafted with premium blooms. No mass-produced arrangements here — every detail is intentional.

10. What’s your vibe? What’s it like to work with you?

Creative, calm, warm, and fun. I love what I do, and I make the process joyful for you, too.


11. How much do wedding flowers cost?

Most of my couples spend between $5,000 and $15,000. I offer flexible options depending on your needs and priorities.

12. What’s included in that kind of budget?Typically: bridal bouquet, personal flowers, ceremony florals (like arches or aisle blooms), and reception centerpieces — all styled with care.

Typically: bridal bouquet, personal flowers, ceremony florals (like arches or aisle blooms), and reception centerpieces — all styled with care.

13. Can I give you a general idea and let you take it from there?

Please do! That’s where the magic happens — when I can create freely based on your story and vibe.

14. What if something goes wrong on the wedding day?

That’s my job to handle — not yours. I’ll be on-site managing everything so you don’t even have to think about it.

15. Do you work with my venue or travel?

Yes, I work across Somerset and beyond. I know many local venues and love traveling for weddings that align with my design style.

16. What makes The Gilded Garden different?

This is more than a flower shop. It’s a creative studio where every arrangement tells a story. You’ll never feel like just another booking here.

17. How far in advance should I book you?

For peak seasons (like summer and fall), it’s best to book 8–12 months in advance. I only take on a limited number of weddings each year.

18. Will you collaborate with my planner or stylist?

Absolutely. I love working as part of a creative team to bring your day together beautifully.

19. Will you help me prioritize what matters most?

Yes. I’ll help you allocate your budget where it creates the biggest impact — and skip what doesn’t.

20. What if I’m just nervous to make the wrong choice?

That’s natural. But if you’re looking for someone to guide you, care deeply, and create something unforgettable — I’ve got you.


Ready to Feel Taken Care Of?

If these answers brought you a little peace of mind (or a big sigh of relief), I’d love to talk with you about your wedding. My floral design process is tailored, relaxed, and full of intention — so you can stop stressing and start feeling excited.

🌿 Inquire now at www.thegildedgardenluxuryflowers.com
🌸 Or send a DM @thegildedgardenluxuryflowers

Let’s create something breathtaking together.

With warmth,
Penny
The Gilded Garden – Somerset, PA

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